Dear Diary – Today I Married the One I Love

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Dear diary,

Today I married the one I love.

I didn’t believe it when people said that weddings were just a huge, happy blur, but ours really was. It was as if time didn’t really exist for us and everything was done at our own pace. There wasn’t any sense of urgency or rush, and we even had time to eat (something that people said we wouldn’t have time to). It was, as cheesy as it sounds, the best day of my life. And I’m getting major wedding blues already.

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bridesmaids having fun

groom getting ready

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The Big Day

It was a blur, a huge blur, but it was the happiest day of my life. I wish I could go back and rewatch everything unravel again: how it didn’t hit me that I was actually getting married until I walked down the aisle with my mum by my side; walking back down with my newly-wedded husband to ‘Believer’ by Smash Mouth; to my father-in-law’s very unexpected impromptu speech; to our first dance to Ed Sheeran’s ‘Perfect’; and to when my grandma ditched her walking stick so that she could join me on the dance floor. It was an absolutely amazing day, and I wouldn’t have changed a thing. Everyone I loved was there, and it was so empowering to be surrounded by their love.

The Venue

We wanted somewhere that was both beautiful on the inside as well as the outside, because it was going to be Sod’s Law that it would rain on our wedding day. It very nearly did – the days before and after were absolutely miserable, so the weather gods were really smiling upon us when we were greeted by beautiful sunshine. S had actually found Ettington Park Hotel, and we couldn’t have chosen a more perfect place. Our coordinator, Ollie, was an absolute angel and was with us every step of the way.

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bride squad, bridesmaids

bride squad, bridesmaids

groom and groomsmen

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bride and groom, lizzie bee wedding

funny wedding faces

Our Theme

I wanted to go with a woodland fairy tale theme, but more of the fae kind rather than Disney. It was quite hard to achieve because usually you would want somewhere outdoors if you were doing a woodland theme, but together with my friend Amy we managed to make it work. We adorned bookcases with fake ivy as well as having them trail down our candelabras, and the fairylights hanging across the room really made it look magical. Our florist, Abbie Digweed, did an incredible job by having stag antlers for the centrepiece on the top table, and this was reflected across to our wedding cake (which was done by S’s family members who did an AMAZING job).

Our Wedding Photographers

Ever since I saw their website I knew that Ryan and Sara were the photographers that we wanted for our wedding. I just love their candid style and the type of editing they did, so we immediately contacted them for a skype call. We had an engagement shoot with them before the wedding and they made us feel so at ease – which is amazing because S hates having his photo taken – and they were amazing on our big day.

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wedding breakfast, speech

My Dress

Me: I want to go with something understated, elegant, and classic… You know, like a fish tail. Something to show off my curves and nothing too over-the-top.

Also me: Comes out with a massive princess dress.

Yep, I had no idea that I would actually ended up choosing a princess dress for our wedding. I got mine from Wed2B and it was fourth dress I had tried on, and even though I tried many others after it I just couldn’t stop going back to it. I tried it on at least three times before firmly deciding that it was the one, and purchased it the same day. It was the first purchase I made after we had placed a deposit on our venue.

Hair & Makeup

Myself and my bridesmaids all had our hair styled by Hair by Harriett, who did an amazing job at producing everlasting. I was astonished – my curls never last, and yet they held for the whole day. We went with a half-do for me with tight curls and a plait/braid running along the top half, together with a pretty hairpiece from KiCrown. My bridesmaids have their hair with plaits running down either side before being tied up into a bun, and they looked so beautiful!

first dance

first dance

And that’s it! That concludes my wedding day. It was honestly – and I don’t care how much I say it – the happiest day of my life. My biggest advice to you is to never stress the little things, because you don’t really notice them at the end of the day. Focus instead on mingling with your guests and dancing the night away!

 Do you have a wedding coming up? Is there any advice that you could give to brides-to-be?

Lizzie Bee xx

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10 Comments
  • Abbey Louisa Rose
    April 12, 2019

    Huge enormous MASSIVE congratulations on your wedding day, girl! Your dress is absolutely stunning and you look like a real fae princess! Everything about your look is perfect, from the big white dress to your stunning make up and gorgeous hair! Ryan and Sara did an absolutely amazing job with the photography, everything looks just magical! I’m sure that you will look back on those photos fondly for the rest of your life! And your cake?! WOW! I love the antler details, your florist did indeed do you proud! Wishing you every happiness for married life, the pair of you look like the perfect couple!

    Abbey xxx
    http://www.abbeylouisarose.co.uk

  • Hels
    April 12, 2019

    Ohh there is so much joy and love in these photos and in your writing ?? I got married in November and you’re right, it totally passes in a blur, I want to go back and do it all again!!
    Your venue is absolutely stunning and your dress is perfect! My advice to brides-to-be would be the same – everything I spent weeks worrying about just melted away on the day and I spent the whole time just dancing and talking to all my favourite people who were all in one room, it was perfect.
    I’ve loved seeing your photos, so magical!
    Hels xxx
    http://www.thehelsproject.com

    • LizzieBee
      April 12, 2019

      Thank you so so so much, Hels! I couldn’t stop smiling while I was writing this post, and it took all of my willpower not to tell everyone about it straight away.

      I totally agree! The little details really didn’t matter at the end of the day. <3

  • WritingIntoTheEther
    April 12, 2019

    Thank you so much for letting me be a part in your big day and I’m happy to have helped even a small part to making it amazing for you. You looked wonderful and you two are the best. I knew when I first said JUST TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL LIZZZIEEEE, that you were made for each other. 😛 love you

  • Elodie Joriot
    April 12, 2019

    Congratulations ! Beautiful pictures! I love your theme and you were absolutely marvelous ! I have no advices for brides because never got married (I’m a single lady and mom for life) but as I think I can compare with the birth of my son remember…. this remember will always make your heart full of love and your eyes full of tears It’s a thing you will cherish for life and you and your husband will get a lot of other beautiful remembers with time… ???

  • Flavie Rosélie
    April 12, 2019

    Congratulations ! ! ?
    The location is wonderful ! Beautiful surrounding for beautiful pictures ! Bravo to the photograph ? It looks like a fairy tail !
    You look amazing in your wedding dress, as you said : like a princess ??

    Enjoy your ”new” life of a married woman ? I wish you, your husband and you, to live happy together for the rest of your life ♡

  • Amiman
    April 12, 2019

    Congratulations!!! Everything looks so beautiful! And you look amazing ♥

  • Life With 2 tots
    April 12, 2019

    Oh Lizzie!! Your day looks perfect I love the theme and colours! Your dress was beautiful too! And your wedding cake ? if I were to actually married (we’re going on 10 years and still no wedding ha!) this would be my dream theme so beautiful magically but classy elegance. So perfect xxx

  • Jasmine | 자스민
    April 12, 2019

    OKAY I FINALLY GOT TO SIT AND READ THIS
    I’m so so happy for you! The photos are gorgeous, the location, THE DRESS and YOU!! You make such a beautiful bride! I wish you both a happy and healthy married life together!
    My partner and I are hopefully going to get married in the next 2-3 years and looking at your photos makes me want it to happen all that much sooner!

    http://kkochsongi.co.uk

  • Michelle | Daisybutter
    April 12, 2019

    Congratulations Lizzie!! What beautiful photos, you look absolutely stunning. That dress is just somethin’ else! xx